The good thing about bad habits is that you can break them using the idea behind Ivan Pavlov’s research. Forming a connection between a certain situation and smoking created your habit. Now, you just need to reverse this process. The main way to break the connection is by practicing not smoking in the very situations in which you used to smoke.
For example, try not to smoke right away after you finish dinner. Delay it for 10 minutes for the first few days. Over time, extend the delay to 20 or 30 minutes. You will probably find that as you take longer and longer to smoke an after-dinner cigarette, the urge to have one will eventually go away. The main goal is to separate the activity from the cigarette and break the connection.
Quit Smoking Activity
Keep track of every cigarette you smoke for three days. Try to determine which of those cigarettes are smoked out of habit and which are smoked for other reasons, such as anxiety and stress. Once you have identified the cigarettes smoked out of habit, start delaying those cigarettes for 10 minutes. Over time, extend that time until the connection is broken.
Another useful trick for breaking habits is to smoke your cigarettes differently. This simple trick makes the act of smoking feel different, and that helps break the connection. Here are some ideas:
- smoke with the opposite hand
- smoke in a different room
- smoke in a different chair
- smoke while listening to a different radio station
There are many ways to break the smoking habit. One of the best is to listen to other people’s stories of how they did it. Join our chat on Wednesday night and share your methods.
Good luck! We know you can do it!